Deep Caring

”Deep Caring”.. Is it love which results in it or is it pure emotions? what stimulates our brain to deeply care for something.. A cause, A mission, A love, or just an obsession…

A story unfolds…

Sandra ”I gave everything for you.. .cared for you… but you never reciprocated my care”

Mark ”Sandra.. try to understand am not in love with you”

Sandra ”common then why you care for me so much?”

Mark  ”I do feel like caring for you”

Sandra ‘Are you in love with someone else”

Mark ”am so happy being with Julie… i care for her.. but she always ends up caring for me much more then I do.. and she is amazing”

Sandra ”hope someone comes up with deep caring tool.. which will help us give clarity on whom we love, whom we care.. whom we deeply love and care.. and which things we can stay without”

Mark ”PASSION Framework..  it taught us probing and innovating.. going deep into an object like a union of male and female to build a universe…  deep caring is that ultimate truth of an objective emerging from that union of two entities”



am transformer, who wishes to change all and change self too

to think positively and be on path of continuous learning..

48% of projects fail in the world.. largely because we are not getting right resources to take the jobs…

with limited skills… we all know the conclusions..

startups too are trying to disrupt but end up getting disrupted themselves… why because again wrong cofounders.. .wrong investors… and so on

so what the heck will I transform?


The journey of greedy love to selfless love needs a transformation

greedy – need a job desperately.. want to settle soon… want to marry soon… want to split soon and so on

selfless – hope he gets a job… hope she settles soon… hope they always remain united… hope they will survive all calamities…

selfless love need not be told.. it needs to be experienced by the other party

transformer will transform belief without even other beliefs realizing that the belief itself is being changed..



a bag of life

all empty in beginning

add an item here

add an item there..

full and overloaded in no time..

remove an item here

remove an item there

trim and sleek in time

a bag of life

choose an item here

choose an item there

all cannot fit in one bag

need to discard few

need to accept few

do have some space left

the space needed to

let items breathe fully.

a bag of life


depends on us

what we treasure

what we discard


Sum up

“Sum up life in one sentence..  ” George the professor asks questions to all..

Mary ”it comes unexpectedly I guess and goes unexpectedly”

Rafi ‘it is a journey and opportunity given to us to do what we can”

Susan is silent…

Professor Harry ”Susan! tell me what you think”

Susan “just geting abused by my own family member and nothing else”

Pin drop silence..

Harry “Susan! Life is not about being silent unless you were born with a defect.. but to express your views and see how it can be addressed…  ”

After the class…

Harry ‘”Susan.. I will be your guardian from now on.. just come out of your step father’s house”


Susan bursts crying..

20 years later

Susan ”Sir.. am going to advocate welfare schemes for ones who express their most secretive problems”

Harry ”good dear..”

Susan “am also getting a grant”

Harry “Cheers.. now how you sum up life”

Susan “life is a purpose given to us to solve a problem faced by us”

Harry “cool”



Breaking free

when we look at big picture, the small worries look trivial and when we look at small picture, the bigger worries are forgotten.. life becomes meaningful solving small problems first and then the complex big ones… at end of day Lord wishes us to be smiling and peaceful irrespective of any type of problems. and to not get into a web of cyclic problems and if one gets into, should know the art of breaking free from that cycle.