Bob had a unique approach to solve a problem. He would understand two conflicting parties view point and ….
Bob ‘I do believe you have different customs, traditions and even views so can I suggest something’
Jay ‘what you wish to suggest?’
Iqbal ‘yes what is it’
Sukhvinder ‘ok… let us understand’
Bob ‘Prepare list of all differences and commonality which you feel can divide you’
All of them begin noting it down, including Bob…
After few hours
Bob ‘Let us now put all of this in white board and circle the common views’
Iqbal ‘what about difference?’
Bob ‘can we add a checklist of tolerance to it’
Sukhvinder ‘you could have told it earlier’
Again all get back to tickmark on what all differences can be tolerated and what cannot’
All look at the whiteboards of each other and begin smiling at each other
Iqbal ‘am failing to understand if I can tolerate you, Sukhvinder and Jay… so am sure others too will’
Jay ‘yes … it is interesting’
Bob ‘if we observe the world… most of population have capacity to tolerate each other
Sukhvinder ‘then why so much hate ‘
Bob ‘the geography territory greed, the greed of upmanship and dominance, inequality of wages or funds for development… that creates unrest. Then we have leads who use that to influence common man and we get into conflicts’
Iqbal ‘what will be the solution’
Bob ‘keep serving others from what we have… and stop worrying of who has how much… do our serving with full compassion ‘
All hug each other and echo ‘We will always be united’