Ethical Home Management

Ethical Home Management
Bringing in transperancy plays a key role for any successful home management.
Bad mouthing our own family members also can create an issue. In global era, our family members could be of different caste, religion, color, creed. So this may lead to rifts, hate waves and sooner before we realize, it leads to managing pockets of hatred, rather then managing the home.
Budgets need to be reviewed. In Joint Family at times many earning members may feel the non earning member should not be given same privilege. How to bring in social empathy within family will play a key role.
There are many a time, culture and traditions which play an influencer role and at times a few of our family members may not believe in same or may wish to follow all together a different culture. How to accept them and successfully gel with them without compromizing on your own principles need loads of tolerance, patience. Any subtle dominance may lead to real rift.
Finally either a husband, wife, father, mother, grandfather or grandmother or son or daughter or maybe even a well wisher may be the home manager for you, however at times 2nd lead creation gets missed out. This leads to the home cracking once the home manager moves to different responsibilities or maybe even expires.

Winning Edge

Maria ‘I am just fedup of this whole rigomore of politics. Just want to exit party as I feel am not capable of handling it more.. The recent defeat’

Nancy.. an ace political advisor ‘dear.. the opposition focused on nationalism and won’

Maria ‘is caste, color, creed, religion still playing role for votes’

Nancy ‘unfortunately it does.. and then the employment of our own citizens’

Bob the opposition party lead calls up Maria

Bob ‘Maria.. agreed we both have different political view.. but please come for celebrating my victory’

Maria puts the phone down.. as she remembers her past

Maria was a good writer, a blogger, a journalist deeply in love with Bob till one day Bob decides to be spokesman of an upcoming political party. Maria feels this is not right for him.. Both have difference of opinion and she seperates from him only to find herself getting an offer from a major party to be their PR. Soon because of her strong writing, content.. she becomes party leader and though Bob keeps loving her till date, still because of ideology difference..

Maria wipes her tears and attends Bob’s winning party

Bob ‘Maria.. how much I knew you would come’

Maria ‘have put up my papers’

Bob ‘what.. just a mere defeat and you moved away’

Maria ‘I am still trying to figure out.. what I wish to do in life. ‘

Bob ‘why don’t we unite’

Maria ‘our ideologies differ’

Bob ‘winning edge dear.. may be internally we both may be having same views’

Maria ‘seriously.. why all this’

Bob ‘look at the perks available to be a politician… never we can get as common citizen’

Maria ‘Bob… is it the only reason you have become a Minister’

Bob ‘Maria… am always there for you… enjoy the party’

3 months later

Bob ‘Maria.. you never told me .. you made an app to resolve issues of people’

Maria ‘it is funded venture..’

Bob ‘I can easily acquire your venture’

Maria ‘not possible.. it is funded by the major party

Bob ‘common.. 1 million downloads and 50000 problems solved..’

Maria ‘you too solve problems’

Bob ‘you know it is so busy.. have to keep traveling overseas’

Maria ‘political intention towards people most import.. good bye’

IQ vs EQ

Mind says ‘never fall in love at all’

Heart says ‘fall in love always’

Mind says ‘stay grounded’

Heart says ‘fly till sky reaches limit’

Mind says ‘money is so important to get everything’

Heart says ‘love can bring in money too’

Mind says ‘do not loose your peace for something you are not getting too soon’

Heart says ‘never loose your hope for something, you feel, you will get some day or other’

Julie says ‘dear all..   I am at lost.. should I love him or not?..  he has IQ and EQ both but never can understand when he uses what’

Nick ‘think he has EQ when you feel for his feelings and think of IQ when you feel, he is taking care of your family responsibilities too’

 

Startup Struggle

Startup Struggle is a journey which begins from an idea and then to product and during this phase the struggle is more towards completing minimum viable product and experiment in market..

What is the story around the struggle?

The story is that everything looks realistic as long as cash exists.. the moment cash is burnt, everything looks unrealistic. Why does money make same object look different is not known to many till date…

Startup struggle is to understand the perception theory of investors, stakeholders, self and family members…

Is this a story in first place?

It is not.. why will anyone bother for a jobless entrepreneur who never got into job in first place…  however the same entrepreneur now gets hold of another jobless entrepreneur from a large company with huge connects…  two negatives become positive..

life is such ..that if two depressed people meet each other, there are chances they will fall in love with each other if left alone.. or even if two happy individuals.. but what if a happy and depressed person gets together…  here dear + x – = – never works.. rather the happy person may make the other person happier… or depressed person will make other person depressed…    it means + x –  can be + too..  everything is perceptive

Story is –  perceive things for what you see and feel and not for what your hear.. as heard story can be false too

 

stop crying

Farida ”do not worry.. every thing will be postponed”

Saira crying still..

Farida ”why?’

Saira ”exams are meant to end early… so again keeping tension for next 20days nightmare”

Farida ”I can understand… I too am waiting for court verdict on our little shop which was gutted and court yet to hear out… and give us the insurance amount so that we can build some small shop again”

Saira ”how is it linked to exams?”

Farida ”god gives us endurance test..  all need to go through it.. patiently”

Saira ”outcome?”

Farida ”all positive if remain focused on the test… else gone”

 

 

Dark Stories

a boy and girl were happily in love till one day, the boy suspected girl for causing him trouble at work and left her. 2 years latter, he realized that it was the jealous friend of him, who caused this misunderstanding so as to get closer to girl but.. what happened next…  She had hung herself ..

a startup went bust and the CEO just ran off to UK.. However his family members back in India.. bore the brunt.. till one day.. he realized that his only daughter had now taken to drugs and his son was found guilty of cheating a company of Rs1 crore..  He could have chosen to return back.. but then he felt, there is something beyond his control.. He sent some sorry emails and letters to his family..

Life can take a U turn anytime..

Suspicion, running away from situation can anytime lead us to problems .. sooner or later.. Better to understand the issue and sort it out, rather then bottling emotions and leaving space for more dark stories.

 

Super Moms

Marie ”Just taking her responsibility as I know my hubby will never take care of her.. 2 years back.. got married and then.. realized he had a failed startup.. boozing and lost in his world.. and then my little treasure came in.. just feel so happy seeing her’

Julie ”do you know the club where most of these entrepreneurs meet.. I found this handsome geek.. ambitious.. wanting to work on block chain project.. never realized that he didn’t understand the chain of constraints in one’s life when we take this big step..  Not committed, but allowed me to have a kid…  and there he is Netherland .. trying to seek funds..  however am left with him.. my little bundle of joy..

Rashmi ”my story is a bit different.. a 18 year old girl.. my daughter.. and a 5 year old son.. and one day I hear.. he is already married to someone else and has a 14 year old boy.. He is a successful man and has run his IT consulting for ages.. and I chose to be in India to look after his business.. till I heard this story… but am happy.. the kids are getting reconciled to additional family members…

Marie ”We are cool super moms. .. who will ensure our babies will grow the right way.. after all.. business is not about only making an entity successful leaving away your personal issues to someone else.. it is about making personal life too happy.. so who wants to join me for a great late evening bash at Marriot, NY today’

Rashmi ”lets get going… and the kids will be taken care by my daughter’